No two cases are identical though there may
be similarities. We tend to assess people and situations based on our
experiences. Sure, that's normal. We form certain belief systems based on these
experiences.
What we forget is, others don't necessarily
have to have the same or similar beliefs. Just because their conditioning,
their thinking patterns may be different.
And that's why in society and even
families, tolerating and accepting people of other belief systems is vital to
harmony and peace in the world. And that is what plagues us: the lack of what
we should have in abundance.
Why is it so difficult to understand that
if I am different from others and expect to be liked for whom I am, then others
also expect to be liked as they are. It is a healthy attitude and one which
inspires more learning. Because we learn more from those we like, accept and
respect.
This is not for closed minds though. You
have to be very open to critical, objective evaluation of yourself and the
performance of surgery of the blocked energies or trapped energies to
accomplish a free flow of transforming energy.
So much to learn and so much time wasted!
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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