The aftermath is an encounter with a person
of toxic energy can be an extremely debilitating one. Even retaliating makes
you feel you are hitting against the wall and often, bleeding.
The tragic part is that you discover that
you are not devoid of toxicity yourself because you actually did pretty much
what you despised in the first place. Evidently, it is somewhere within and
bursts forth without warning triggered off by the other person.
Walking away from situations is probably an
intelligent decision. Ignoring is another solution. Gritting your teeth and
smiling is another but jokes apart, although it gets tough to not retaliate
when someone is being plain obnoxious, it is wiser to step aside. And if you
have a relapse, try and try again.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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