Sacrifices

This thought is very prevalent among the seniors today, that they have been under the control of their elders earlier and now, under their children. Yes, the plight of seniors, many of them, is of concern. This brings me back again to a fundamental question I ask again and again. About duties and responsibilities in a family.

Many youngsters have become successful on the shoulders of their parents who made personal sacrifices so that the children could prosper in life. Are the youngsters grateful? Do they understand that there has been a price paid for those sacrifices? And do they feel the love for their elders enough to reciprocate that love and caring? 

I can say with certainty that family is a great bond of shared love and support, PROVIDED there is always the element of mutual respect and freedom to grow. Discipline, sure! Unnecessary Controls, NO! Entitlement, NEVER! Individual wholesomeness is badly needed to establish a journey of a balance of give and take and of virtuous living, correcting flaws along the way. All of us have them.

When we see sterling qualities in anyone, observe and learn, especially if you have struggled earlier. Blaming parents, teachers, friends are never going to get us anywhere. It is a new day every day. Treat it as such and begin a new life every day, leaving past grievances where they belong! In the past!

Surekha Kothari

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