Showing posts with label Affected. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Affected. Show all posts
Wednesday, 5 August 2020
Thursday, 10 October 2019
Probability
Sometimes, we reach a deadlock within
ourselves. Which way to go? What to do? These are times when probably we don't
want to do a trade off to make choice. We want it all.
I think it would be great at such times, as
someone said, to write a letter to your future self. Great idea! To visualize
your future self and then make choices, how do I want to be in future? What
kind of a person? Accordingly, you make your decisions today. There is less
probability of going wrong. And we will learn to take corrective measures more
easily.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Wednesday, 11 September 2019
Monday, 2 September 2019
Life challenges
The worst thing that happens is when we
feel life has cheated us. This is the consequence of taking wrong decisions,
maybe even leaving the decisions for our life on others. The journey of each
individual is different. Life challenges everyone in one way or another but
some have support coming their way and some keep seeking support.
There is much advice coming forth from
people who mean well. But if there is no inner confidence in you, the necessary
steps may not get taken at all. To forge ahead, one needs to be oblivious to
opinions, criticisms and the like. And I also see that if wounds are deep, one
can stop moving and progressing. I guess you heal when you not only stop
getting affected by people but also, cease to become self critical to the point
of harming and damaging yourself.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Tuesday, 6 August 2019
Importance of affirmations
There are two major planes of awareness
necessary in life. One, that I am a soul, not the body. And if I am in my body
consciousness, I am in my ego state. Somewhere, that ego is going to try and
create negativity and block the channels of communication with the Divine.
The importance of affirmations has become
huge only to cleanse the blocks which lodge within our cells. Keep
superimposing the positive over the negative and finally, replace the negative
with the positive. It is possible to cleanse the memories which we should not
store and which disturb us. Unknowingly, we have abused ourselves in many ways.
It is time to become aware, zero in on those grey areas and treat them once and
for all.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Thursday, 4 July 2019
Monday, 24 June 2019
Thursday, 15 November 2018
Tuesday, 28 August 2018
Thursday, 9 August 2018
Wednesday, 6 December 2017
Tuesday, 13 December 2016
Friday, 9 December 2016
Wednesday, 7 December 2016
Divine gift
The
most difficult thing to do is KNOW the motives of people around you, SEE them
trying to harm you and yet smile it off without getting affected. In fact, even
meting out affection in return. There has to be so much confidence and faith
that anything that affects you has only been your choice.
I have
seen angry, even vicious people crumble under such cool attitudes. It’s also
called killing with kindness.
These
people are like mountains, "chattans" as they say in Hindi.
Unshakeable to the core! Yes, the core! When your core is anchored to the
Divine, it becomes truly irrelevant what kinds of webs of negativity might be
woven around you. It is like breaking your head against a wall...you will not
succeed in affecting such people.
What
a wonderful and Divine gift!
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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