Showing posts with label Conscious. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Conscious. Show all posts

Friday, 2 January 2026

Humiliation

What is our biggest and the most regrettable loss? Have we thought about it? Or are we moving through life mechanically?

Our biggest loss is losing OURSELVES… losing our intrinsic spiritual nature, losing our faith in that we are divine creatures, losing pure minds over frivolous and harmful activities and creating negative karma by the minute.

Really??? Is that how we want to be described or seen by the world? And more important, is this how we actually want to live the life gifted to us?

And all this wastage of our precious lives just to accommodate others and run the race of popularity when our reality is “from dust unto dust”?

Each time we indulge in a negative act, we are sinking deeper and deeper into our pool of darkness. We just don’t see it because we are not aware or conscious that it is a natural outcome which we, at some point, will just HAVE to pay for.

The irony of the human is that what you don’t see, you don’t realize the impact of. How strange that instead of bringing the sub conscious into the conscious and clearing it up, we choose to increase our dark spaces. By continuing our negative patterns of thought, word and deed. These keep manifesting and we keep increasing the darkness within us. Especially when we derive vicarious pleasure from observing the downfall or humiliation of others. It is actually OUR downward journey.

The ego IS our identity but must be counteracted by the attitude of humility, grace and goodness.

With Bharat moving ahead with such speed, can we afford to be sluggish in our individual “vikaas”, that is, upliftment?

Think seriously! Life is given for reflection and transformation.

Surekha Kothari

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Tuesday, 8 July 2025

Respect

 Between the mental states of over explaining to please people and attacking people when YOU might be wrong, there is a middle ground.

RESPECT everyone whether, in your eyes, they deserve it or not. Not because of anything else, but because it demonstrates your sterling quality of non judgement.

We need to understand this. Yes, we all have showered our frustrations and anger on others. But we do need to become conscious and change this. For ourselves. Not because of others.

Whatever we change for the better is a win win for us. When we detest people due to their negative qualities, the law of resonance says “look within”. YOU may have something to clean up yourself.

My guru says, detest the negativity, NOT the person. Every soul shows karmic traits and learning to cope with their karmic agenda, so, your role would be to live and let live. If you are close, point out lovingly what they need to work with.

Just as the cane acts as a loving support to a blind man when he crosses the road, love can hold your hand and help you cross over from grief to happiness. If you don’t have enough love, then you need to enhance the love factor within you.

Surekha Kothari

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