The onus of your life is totally yours. It is your choice all the way. What you do and even what you abstain from doing.
Your thought processes, your way
of dealing with people and situations, your decisions to involve or withdraw,
to tolerate or not, to compromise or not.
Life is like a game of tennis.
The ball keeps coming at you and you have to take quick action about whether a
forehand is required or a back hand, and how to strategize to win points. And
how to get really good with ace serves.
Similarly, life is a game of
courage, intelligence and the ability to learn and move on, not lose your
energy over what could have been. And life gives you chance after chance to
learn, throwing repeated lessons at you until you learn from them.
You will notice that many a time,
there will be someone out to get you , bait you , and you keep reacting with
irritation. But the thumb rule is that as soon as you become immune to it, they
lose their hold on you. It is an energy hold and you have given your power away.
As is the case with anything that succeeds in controlling / overpowering you.
The awareness you need each
minute is to conserve your energy, stay within your space and use your
intellect with wisdom. Emotions too, IF you are able to use them intelligently.
But, keep your aura intact. At all times.
Surekha Kothari
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