I learnt a long time ago that if you point one finger outwards, three will point back at you. Ever since then, if I see undesirable behavior of someone towards me, I go inwards to see what it is about me that inspired that behavior.
This exercise has helped me
tremendously. To understand whether there is something in me that attracted it,
and that I should clean up within me or, the issue is within those who mete out
such behavior to feel good about themselves or they are just not strong enough
to face their issues or circumstances.
In either case, it becomes a win-
win situation for me. Either I clean up or I let go of what is not my concern. It
is truly a moment of freedom. It simplifies my life.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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