Friday 30 October 2020

Uniqueness

 Religions are manmade. Every apostle left the earth alone and people around him organized themselves around his teachings and it became a religion. For example, Buddha only said, “become a Buddha”. But his followers started a religion. The good thing was that there was an attempt to follow the teachings because not one of them ever preached anything separatist or conflict driven. They spoke about how to lead a spiritual life and connect with Creation and the soul.

What happened was that man, in his frailty, started to imagine his religion to be the only right one. And the rest is history. There has never been peace because there has never been either tolerance or acceptance between human beings.

It is worth thinking about why we feel we have to reject people who are different. People who are not like us, people who don’t think, walk, talk or look like us. It has to be an aberration. That we can go to the extent of even exterminating these people. How badly threatened we must feel, right?

Actually, we are so unable to extend our vision to encompass and appreciate the uniqueness of others. We feel small, irrelevant. And we don’t like that feeling. And we lack courage to become better. So, we feel it is easier to remove / destroy what makes us uncomfortable.

Always worth remembering that it is a lack within us that presents an illusion of a lack within others it is the resonance that makes this real. If you elevate yourself from that space, you are through.

So, keep your religion and all other identities within yourself and only for you. And allow others to do the same. Why is it so difficult?

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Tuesday 27 October 2020

Aspects of people

 

When you get into the habit of being stressed due to the way people behave with you, you are in trouble and out of your mind control. I know most people get affected by the negative aspects of people they love or are attached to. That is “normal”. But what we don’t decipher in our hurt is that we have a choice: to hurt or not hurt. If we are wholesome, hurt is not even an option. It is too trivial. But if we are fractured by our reactions and our needs, then we need repair big time. We MUST cure this at the earliest.

I realize that when people are grappling with a certain discomfort in their own skin, they get mercurial. And they tend to unleash their anger about not feeling so good about themselves, on others. So, it is not necessary to retort at all. It is really not about you at all. Once you understand this, it become easier to be calm around such people.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Tuesday 20 October 2020

Aware of the futility

 

Have you ever tried to take any thought to its extreme point? You will notice that it comes to naught because, beyond a point, nothing really matters. The mind, as long as it is engaged in emotions, will lead you from pillar to post, link unconnected thoughts unnecessarily and make you crazy ...unless you learn to contain it. But this starts happening when, through experience; you have discovered this to be a fact. That really, nothing really matters after its extremity has been reached.

You see evidence of this in people who weep uncontrollably and then, suddenly start laughing.

The lesson here is to always be aware of the futility of some thoughts over others and to know that beyond the mind, all is on ground zero.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Sunday 18 October 2020

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Fragile life

 I have learnt that when someone reaches out to you, do always respond. Because you never know! It could be the most important meeting of your life. Or, it could be your last with that person.

Do we ever focus on how fragile life can be? We are so confident that each time we go to sleep; we are going to wake up the next morning. For many, that morning never came.

Sadly, I see so many egos at work a lot of blame too. I see couples whose destinies were not to be together, keeping grouses for life. I see families growing up amicably enough but later, conflicting on emotional and material issues. We never learn to say, “God knows better”.

Where does all the love go? Because there was a time we DID love. How does it turn to hate? Dislike? They say every action has an equal and opposite reaction. That the more you loved, the more you hate now.

Not at all! What turned to hate were the expectations that were never met. If you profess to love, that love should never be quantified. Love with expectations is not love. You really don’t know what karma has in store for you. Whatever it may be, the love you hold in your heart makes it easier to go through life. It is an enormous strength even if your loved ones are far away.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Thursday 15 October 2020

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Understanding

 

Sometimes, life gives you a rap on your knuckles. Many a time, our impatience with people leads to complete intolerance and you just go away from that to look for new people. Another chance to breathe, you tell yourself.

And then comes the funny bit! When you find that the earlier people were angels compared to the new ones in your life. There is always a plus and a minus.

Moral of the story: there will always be someone better and someone worse than us, if our expectations of them are unrealistic and not based on a proper understanding.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

 

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Monday 12 October 2020

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Parental expectations

 

Let a child be a child. Parental expectations from a child are often very unrealistic. Parents know it is their responsibility to bring up a wholesome individual. Only, they don’t always get it right.

Let us not get too critical of parents though, because ultimately, they will only act according to their circumstances and what they know to be the best decision at that moment. But, what we don’t ponder on is what our peers have claimed, that “buddhi karmanusarini”, that is, your karma determines your intellect.

Every child develops a perspective and that may shape future relationships. For example, two middle class parents working to make ends meet to make a comfortable life for their child might end up with a child who grows up with a minus mother, minus father image and perspective merely because the parents were not physically present because they were at work no one’s fault. Yet, there arises conflict, disappointments, resentments and all of that.

In life, perhaps, we just need to understand each other as much as possible and even beyond. Because, Can anyone live anyone’s journey? Can anyone judge anyone’s journey? Then what is left is love and understanding. This energy can only spread cheer and good will.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Friday 9 October 2020

Harmony

 

Every word that we speak has energy. It is therefore, wise to measure our words. I am sure everyone has heard that spoken words have a way of manifesting because, often, the intensity of emotions accompanies them. If you WILL something with intensity, it does happen.

We have stories of sages cursing and those curses coming true. That was word power accompanied by intention.

Harmony in speech takes the conflict out of words and creates a positive environment, and amicable relationships.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Wednesday 7 October 2020

Humanity

 

Humanity generally swings between love and loss. Love is the spiritual energy and loss the result of fear, the other energy but the darker of the two.

Imagine if there WAS nothing to lose? This realization is the ultimate in all realizations. You lose only what you have, right? But if you realize that you don’t own anything or anyone then?

Everything is flowing by and to observe this with love for the Creator is actually to love oneself, to know oneself, being an integral part of the Creator. Just like a drop cannot claim independence from a body of water. The drop is a small part of a whole, which we know as Divine Energy. And everything is sacred and whole within it.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Thursday 1 October 2020

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Adaptation

 

Living in denial is really detrimental. Whether it is the Congress that lives in denial of the obsoleteness of dynastic rule or it is you and me who don’t accept facts of our lives.

You know, to keep accepting changes gets exhausting and that is when one goes into the denial mode. The fact of life is that equations change, people change, some outlive their uses, others move on... and to cope with many and often, rapid changes requires energy, courage and persistence of adaptation to changes.

We don’t do even ten percent work on ourselves, accumulating polluted energy in the bargain.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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