Showing posts with label Freedom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Freedom. Show all posts

Thursday, 18 June 2020

Honest and Welfare


Why is it that it has become a crime to be honest and welfare oriented? Very simple! This is the scenario of current times for the same reason that families are becoming distant.
Too much freedom given, taken or taken forcefully has, over a period of time, diluted the impact of honesty and benevolent advice. Today, when freedom has been generally misused to result in an eclipse of general welfare, the scope of an upward swing would require a herculean effort from each one of us.
We have always had to be driven towards that upward swing. We need to be taught to think right. And then maybe, we will realize how valuable the values that we lost were.
Surekha Kothari

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Sunday, 29 March 2020

Harmful Thoughts

We speak of wanting the freedom to make our own choices. Fair enough. And yet, when it comes to our random, often harmful thoughts, we don’t realise that we need to choose the better thoughts and let go of those that will not serve us. And in our hearts, we know this . But a restless mind receives hundreds of thoughts, many of which are useless ones. But we still receive them, and if we are aware, will turn them over in our minds first and examine their worth in our lives. And if not, then better to reject internalising them and send them back into the Universe. Because similar thoughts tend to coagulate into a huge mass of negativity. Whereas, good thoughts must be held on to tightly or they have a tendency to scatter into the atmosphere and disappear.
Surekha Kothari

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Thursday, 5 March 2020

Tolerance

There comes a time when you kind of tend to lose your tolerance for superficiality. The surface look of anything has a limited period of interest and limited value. After that, you want to go deeper. And if there is no “ deep” dimension or is not apparent when sought, there comes a saturation point and then the mind wanders away.
This intolerance, more often than not , is an age related symptom. Weeding out the chaff from the wheat is an inevitable process when exhaustion for meaningless anything sets in over a long period of time.
You start questioning why you think , speak or act without really catering to your basic persona. Your honest persona. Your more genuine persona. Why ? Time to quit the play., the drama of it all and return to source energy.
Surekha Kothari

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Wednesday, 1 August 2018

Depressing thoughts


Unobtrusively, we start to become what our thoughts are made up of. At first, we are taught to think like our parents. We imbibe our environment. Everyday actions we see around us speak of the thoughts that inspired the actions. And we emulate and emulate.
Later, when we see ourselves from the eyes of others, we realize that we must look onwards into our thought patterns which are seen by people in our speech and action. You cannot separate the people from their thoughts.
Depressing thoughts! Thoughts of envy and sadness or happy thoughts, thoughts of love and goodness. Every thought will manifest if given importance.
We foster the thought and then it festers. That's it! Many such festering thoughts create who we are.
So, think before you think! Meditate on what you think before you give the thoughts the pride of place within your mind, because they may enslave you. And what will that make you? A slave to your thoughts instead of the master who has command over them.
Surekha Kothari

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Monday, 19 June 2017

Personifying


The things we do may perhaps be similar to others but the WAY we do them are different. An often repeated truth...that winners don't necessarily do different things but might do the same thing differently.
Have you noticed how creative people do mundane chores as if they are enjoying them day after day after day? The onlooker sees these as boring, mechanical and depressing. But an enriched mind survives well, digging up many ways to keep the interest alive.
"ROUTINE" is the word for people who cannot find new routes and get stuck along the way. And when they add "mundane" to "routine", then they have truly lost their interest and therefore, their creativity.
I find walking on round tracks not so easy because you end up nowhere except in circles. But now, I reverse the circle, change my breathing pattern, speed, the shloka I might be chanting for the round, the trend of thought....or maybe, just become still in mind...thoughtless.
I find this is a great technique to live with myself, too. The inputs come from different aspects of me but I have a lot of fun personifying all these different ideas as many people within me giving me new ideas and walking in that circle with me.
Surekha Kothari

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Wednesday, 28 September 2016

Digesting success!

Digesting success! It is a social issue which increases with more materialism incorporating elements like excess wealth, celebrity status and the power that accompanies these, often bringing in a certain amount of carelessness, even callousness and riding slip shod over people because with a head in the clouds, looking down is not a virtue in possession.

Spiritually, these are often not compatible because of what they do to the psyche. It is only the odd person who can digest “success” in terms of good karma being rewarded and therefore, gratitude.
But there is a little good news…

Today, the tolerance to myopic attitudes is wearing thin. The wheel is turning once more towards the universal values and against self centered thoughts and actions at the cost of others.
Today, gradually, right is being applauded as right and wrong as wrong. I guess we are fed up of artifice, might is right, the attitude that the end justifies the means and the economic disparities which continue to make it difficult for the common man to keep a certain standard, especially when there is so much available that money can buy today.. And it doesn't help to have glaring publicity and opulence for those few who have much and state it every minute with their attitudes, their lifestyles and not enough demonstration of improving the lot of the masses in the country.
No, I am not either a communist or an anti capitalist. But I do believe in values like stooping when tall, humble when successful and contributing to creating a balanced society in every way.
Surekha Kothari

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