Showing posts with label Analyze. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Analyze. Show all posts

Thursday, 26 January 2023

Expectations

 

It is all about expectations. We feel “comfortable” around certain people because somehow, they don’t threaten our self-image. We accept only such people.

If you analyze why some others are kept at bay by you, or criticise or pick on, you will learn a lot about yourself.

The moment you reflect on your thoughts, you will get the link within yourself. It is never outside of you. Keep reflecting and cleaning up as you go along. This is the only way to growth.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

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Thursday, 2 August 2018

IT IS WHAT IT IS


When you don't talk about yourself much, people feel you are alright. And you have no burning issues. But, actually, some just don't have the habit. Some are too private. Some don't see what this will accomplish. Some feel, "why bore others? How does it concern them?" Or even, why it should concern them, Kind of "not done" kind of feeling.
There are some who feel a part of other people when they talk about their personal issues. But often, I have seen that many also go through life's journey managing it as independently as they can. I wonder if being vulnerable to people's attention is viable in the long run. It is difficult to put yourself in the opposite type of shoes from those which you wear.
The final word of course, is, IT IS WHAT IT IS until it isn't that anymore.
Surekha Kothari

surekhakothari.wordpress.com


Thursday, 7 June 2018

Intention of people


Have we ever thought that if we never accepted the dishonorable intentions of people, how untouched by negativity we would be! Imagine, if someone wanted to deliberately humiliate you, for example, but you just didn't react to the intention and instead, continued to maintain your politeness and dignity, how foolish that person might end up feeling?
Try it, not once, but again and again, through life.
Surekha Kothari

surekhakothari.wordpress.com