Monday, 4 May 2026

Reciprocity

It takes years to build relationship bridges. And not even a day to burn them. Valuing people when you get benefits out of them is nothing very spectacular. This is not the reason to sustain a relationship.

It’s caring, ever ready to help in need, unconditional love and a lot of understanding of their situations that cement bonds.

As you grow older, you feel the need to cement these bonds even more. Sometimes, you work alone and don’t get the same feeling reciprocated. So then the onus is on you. I don’t understand how you can suddenly “un love” a person. If you can, then that was never love.

That’s why it is said that love is its own reward. Love, if it fills up your heart. Don’t worry about any reciprocity.

Though, the heart chakra works to give and receive. And does get blocked if either one of the functions is partially or completely blocked. And this chakra is also a bridge between the earth and access to our higher self.

So much awareness is required each second. And we fail to be conscious enough. The joy of feeling the consciousness changing the inner environment to a lighter and warmer one has to be experienced.

Surekha Kothari

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