Showing posts with label Assumption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Assumption. Show all posts
Wednesday, 8 July 2020
Monday, 22 June 2020
Thursday, 14 May 2020
Thursday, 23 April 2020
Spiritual Health
It is important to train yourself to
understand that YOUR life and your spiritual health is THE single most
important thing or at least, should be, for you. You have to and must keep your
focus on your well being and this should certainly not depend on someone else whoever
it may be.
If you notice, the moment you stop taking
the words or actions of others seriously and stop applying them to yourself,
you begin to feel your energies lightening. Many must have experienced this.
The heaviness leaves you. You can think more clearly and resume your own
activities with a new vigor.
There is much to be said about taking
things with a big pinch of salt.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Tuesday, 21 April 2020
Monday, 20 April 2020
Wednesday, 15 April 2020
Tuesday, 25 February 2020
Thursday, 30 January 2020
Wednesday, 22 January 2020
Tuesday, 27 August 2019
Sunday, 18 August 2019
Friday, 16 August 2019
Disappointments
Grief sometimes has a very deep impact.
Often, very deep disappointments with very close people can also become a
source of grief. What you least expect from a person can hit you hard. So, try
not to let the feeling run too deep or it will affect your health.
As I was discussing with someone, as per
our tradition, duty and responsibility has been given a higher role than even
love. There is a very good reason for this. While doing your duty, you do what
you are supposed to do. What is right by you? You don't look at what the others
are doing. So, by not being reactive, it is easy to know your
"dharma" and fulfill it. No emotion. Health remains intact. It is a
win situation for you. You are actually working from your higher self Great way
to be.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Sunday, 21 July 2019
Thursday, 13 June 2019
Thursday, 30 May 2019
Monday, 3 December 2018
Sunday, 2 December 2018
Intelligence
Why do we go into sometimes uncalled for
and sometimes unnatural behavioral patterns? Especially with certain people?
And you tell yourself that you don't know where these patterns came from. But
they have to have come from somewhere.
I find that old memories are the most
common triggers.
Your old negative experiences about these
people create an adverse reaction and even if you see them after a long time,
you still assume that those old habits of that person would still be existing
as you had experienced before and been thoroughly disenchanted with at the
time.
Assumptions can be very real and dangerous
at times. Because you haven't given another chance and may be completely wrong
and start something like a chain of causes and effects you never should have.
Or never dreamt you would.
It is therefore, a good idea to forgive and
erase those memories.
You would be human to ask, how many chances
should one take and be given in any particular case of being burnt with past
experiences. The reply lies with you and how intelligently you can handle the
same people again, this time without labeling them black and by giving them and
yourself another chance at creating a new equation.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)