Showing posts with label Boundaries. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Boundaries. Show all posts

Monday, 2 December 2019

Knowledge

I don't believe that anyone can really teach anyone anything as per their own convictions. Unless the mind is open. And the mind opens to listen to another if there is respect for the person teaching . However much the teacher tries, the response has still to come from within each individual.
Learning comes only when and from where it is supposed to come. Did we necessarily learn from the wisdom of our elders ? No. We were busy defying them at that point. Years later, when we arrived at the same point, we realised that our elders HAD told us this but we never listened.
This is the story of most people's lives. If pure knowledge is sought, it really doesn't matter if it comes from someone we consider our worst enemy. But we probably will shun anything that comes from that source because we perceive the "enemy", not the "knowledge". And thus, out of our prejudice , we tend to remain on the same level as before. We forgo that source of knowledge which was a god given opportunity that came with a test which we did not pass. And this becomes such a habit that we don't think about it twice. It becomes a normal pattern. How much we stand to lose we cannot even imagine !
As it is said , don't ask a sage what caste he belongs to. Just take the knowledge he has to impart. By implication, the rest is really none of your business. Is it ?
Surekha Kothari

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Tuesday, 18 June 2019

World of dualities

We know that we live in a world of dualities. So, some good , some not so good. Then, we learn that we should not look at the not so good as not so good. Everything is to be accepted . Change what you can and let go of what can't be.
And then starts our work. On ourselves, folks. Not on others.
Likes waves hitting the shore and thrashing anything that is within it, we get carried by wave upon wave through the ocean of life. Not being uplifted, now hurled, now thrashed. But moving with the wave nonetheless. And moving sometimes alone and sometimes being thrown together with some souls whose journey is with us at that moment. But definitely "alone" as the persistent state.
Wisdom : learning to enjoy and making the most of the uplifted state. And trying to keep a balance when hurled and thrashed. To know that we will be uplifted again. And again and again if we lighten our burdens simultaneously....until, one day, we will learn how to ride the crest of the wave.
Surekha Kothari

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