Showing posts with label Admirable. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Admirable. Show all posts
Tuesday, 28 July 2020
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Sunday, 15 March 2020
Sunday, 8 March 2020
Admiration
We were , as children, were brought up on
the tonic, “ you do the right thing”. And as everyone knows, reactive is more
the mode of humans than responsive and proactive. It was so normal to feel a
little resentful about being the “bigger” person . Who wanted to be the bigger
person when only injustice was on the mind.
But, today, when I count some traits of
maturity, I am afraid, doing the right thing is way up there. I understand that
it was primarily this trait that kept families together, for one. And to me,
this is very important.
The Red Label Tea ad shot around the” kumbh
mela “theme is completely demonstrative of the merits of doing the right thing.
Somehow, we lose the battle due to our desires which don’t match what aught to
be done. There is no point arguing with people who question the reasons for
doing what is in the best interests of all, when only “my” interest is in focus
for me. And that interest is not always aligned with the larger interest.
We speak of Buddha with admiration but
don’t think ever of trying to emulate .... we never feel qualified and therein
lies the problem. We fail to even try.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Wednesday, 4 March 2020
Thursday, 27 February 2020
Wednesday, 19 February 2020
Monday, 10 February 2020
Sunday, 5 January 2020
Sunday, 22 December 2019
The importance of communication
The importance of communication! Very close
bonds have been broken, only due to a lack of communication, usually more by one
person. Sometimes, by both the warmth of communicating have not many substitutes.
Communication is that warm energy that keeps even the love flowing in
relationships.
Isn’t it true that when we keep in touch
regularly, it demonstrates a certain caring that says, “I am thinking of you”.
It is different in case of people who have
lost touch with each other. But a distance does tend to develop if you don’t
hear from someone for months and they don’t think it is a big issue. Sometimes,
it just boils down to a one sided relationship where the efforts made are
unequal, Of course having said that, the needs of people differ in this matter.
This is where the role of understanding comes in. And this is where one must
see the reasons for a particular status in bonds being close or being diluted or
even severed.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Wednesday, 20 November 2019
Sunday, 17 November 2019
Emotional angles
To say it as it is, clearly and without any
emotional angles can be a wonderful way to show simplicity. Emotion of any kind
colours your statements as also our behaviour. I also find that it shows in
your body language. Basically, it is not coming from a clean space.
It is amazing how any blocked energy can be
lodged in your system for years and years. Use your inner electronic conveyor
belt , like that of a treadmill, to keep moving with a healthy plan for life
and definitely include leaving each step behind as you take the next one.
Retracing only helps when you want to heal something that was left incomplete.
Don’t forget to revisit and heal. Nip any tendency of a residue build up in the
bud. It takes a long time to clean so many cob webs. And time is short.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Monday, 11 November 2019
Thursday, 7 November 2019
Tuesday, 5 November 2019
Thursday, 31 October 2019
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