Sincere

 Every attempt to sincerely cleanse yourself is painful, like pulling your teeth. The mind just does not want to go there and look into any flaws whereas, that is a priority.

It is so much easier to discuss the flaws of others because they are in front of you. You cannot be in front of yourself, can you? Yes! You can, but you won’t! Because it is darned painful! After all, you are battling with your ego which cannot stand being exposed.

So how will you deal with this ?

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

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Compromise

 I have realised that we aught not to ever compromise the lightness of our being. For anyone or anything.

We tend to become heavy whenever we deal with emotions , triggered by our love concern for others or even by our own experiences based on our perceptions of ourselves… which trigger our own reactions. At such times, it is important to step back immediately and examine the quality of those incoming thoughts.

Yes, we are mostly reacting. Not responding. A response is a thoughtfully created effect to a cause. This is what we need. We don’t need a trigger for our negativity to show . We should know that THAT does not come from a good place. It is in fact, an indication for which spaces we need to clean up within us.

Like, our constant need to be judgemental about others when we need that finger pointed towards ourselves. Clean ourselves to better our image in our own mirror. It’s a single point agenda.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Divine love

I don't know why people feel that praising anyone takes away from them. How ? I have never understood. In fact, lauding people for their , accomplishments or achievements or talent makes you feel so good ! So connected to the Divine energy that stands illuminated in each one of us.

Being generous is a true gift. Many times, if we don't like someone, we only criticise . And praise ??? Never !!! Sad but true ! Envy ? Probably . Low self esteem ? For sure.

But once we analyse this, we must make a genuine effort to cleanse this aspect within us . Because this block really acts as a big obstacle, a hindrance in our personal growth. It blocks the heart which carries the Divine energy of divine love.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Success and admiration

This choice of either following or leading is just like giving a choice of birth and death but forgetting to focus on the importance of the journey between the two points. When you ask someone to either follow or lead, you perhaps ask for a very simplistic choice.

To follow is essential in order to observe and learn. And then graduate to leadership. But it is equally true that people who are chosen to be leaders have to have the qualities of a follower. In fact, both the roles are constant and interchangeable. No one person can possibly know everything.

The premise is that we all are constantly learning from each other. And leaders need to keep their head squarely on their shoulders and their egos thoroughly in check to sustain their leadership.

A leader therefore, is a balanced individual who needs to maintain a sense of respect as well as respect those around, whether in families, groups or workplaces. And one who also switches roles as per the need of the hour, a definite formula for success and admiration.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Ignorance

To bless everyone who hurts you wittingly or unwittingly is the soul purification exercise we need most in our journey. The older you get, the more the realization dawns that everything was meant to be. All your efforts come to naught if your destiny lies elsewhere. From

The moment of this realization, a burden seems to fall off. All the guilt, the disappointments, the anger and self criticism for taking wrong decisions just dissolve into nothingness. We thought we were in charge. But we could have been channels with awareness rather than without.

So, we need to become light and actually feel amazed at our beautiful journey which is guided and where each moment is designed towards building strength and wisdom by the unseen hands of compassionate kindness which is within us and all around us, which we unnecessarily look everywhere for , out of our own innocence and / or ignorance.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Life in KALYUG

Very long ago, a definition was given about life in KALYUG...

1. KALYUG would be found in the streets of ADHARMA.

2. In DYUTKREEDA: that is, making easy money by foul play and without deserving it through hard work.

3. PAANAM / VYASAN: poisonous consumption, addiction of liquor, drugs and in thoughts, words and deeds.

4. Indulging in gossip

5. Less sleep and prone to several health issues.

6. More anger

7. Less energy and inner happiness.

8. More arrogance and showmanship

9. Less purity of mind and body.

10. Violence in all forms: thoughts, emotions and physical. Prone to enmity and opposition.

Story:

A shishya who lived in his guru's ashram had a habit of smoking.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari