Showing posts with label Damage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Damage. Show all posts

Wednesday, 21 April 2021

Realization

 

One of the worst traits we can have and should definitely not have is ingratitude. It’s a popular saying that the people who you meet going up are the same people you will meet coming down.

A saying in Gujarati, translated, says, in life, there may come a time when we may need even a particle of dust. This is not to say that we should use people according to our needs. It means that whatever the circumstances, be grateful for everything because everything and everyone is important in their own unique way.

We grumble when the sun is so intense that it burns but if there was no sun at all? When we get heavy rain that causes damage to property but fills up the catchment areas and provides an abundance of water, should we curse it? Imagine what would happen if there was no water for us?

Two mantras in life are valuable.

One, this too shall pass

Two, it could have been worse

Everything is so relative in this world that only contentment can help in sustaining gratitude with the realization that what we have is a lot and this thought is enough to fill us with a sense of abundance and well being.

Surekha Kothari

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Sunday, 13 October 2019

Awareness


Letting go is the only way to spiritual upliftment that is, if one is looking for it, letting go of any sentiments of attachment which become bondage. People generally misunderstand this as letting go of caring and compassion. Anything that ties you down is not really healthy either a relationship or a city or people who depend on your energy to feel good.
This awareness is extremely important. When the weaker ones feed on your energy, it debilitates you. And you become ineffective for your own forward movement and are also unable to help others in the bargain.
This is likely to happen when, in a relationship, one move on and the other needs to hang on. The auras don't match and there is an issue, a conflict of sorts. We live day to day with many such situations but don't know how to read these situations correctly; In terms of the changing equations of energies. Once we know what is happening, we will be able to take proactive steps to prevent reoccurrences of such episodes in our lives.
Surekha Kothari

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Tuesday, 3 September 2019

Valuable experience


When our heart knows something is about to end, we still don't want to accept it. We want to prolong the experience, sometimes for the wrong reasons. The natural outcome of whatever is meant to be will happen only when "I" get out of the way, so to speak "I", meaning my "wrong reasons" like guilt, pity, dependence, inability to take hard decisions and so on.
People are always talking about practical living but I don't really know the extent of the meaning. What constitutes the "impractical" part? It might be different for different people.
However, the one valuable experience I can share is, if you desire something don't look at it in the face. Turn away and it will come to you when you least expect it and when the time is right. And if it doesn't, then maybe, it was never meant to be. And in all this thought process, l am keeping myself as merely an observer, an analyst. "I" am not there.
Surekha Kothari

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