Universe

 

We need to have a fair sense of right and wrong which applies universally, irrespective of our relationships.

It starts first with each one of us. And when we apply it to ourselves, then we don’t need to look at others. Being blind and forgoing this sense of right and wrong when it comes to

People we love is our own pollution of the mind.

Don’t let yourself off the hook for anything you have done wrong. Use fair play and you will find yourself becoming confident in your righteousness.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Self-Improvement

 

You have to be not only confident, but also open minded and intent on self-improvement to be able to take frankness about yourself. It is very important to let your loved ones point out certain traits in you which need tweaking. Very often, you cannot see yourself as others can see you. But if you don’t want to know, no one will tell you. Be sure though, that the only sufferer will be you. Because improvements will not come your way and you will tend to stagnate within your state of denial.

Which state is better? That you swallow even a bitter pill to get better or take a sugar pill and insist you are getting better?

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

Quote of the day

 

Quote of the day

 

Quote of the day

Quote of the day

Self abnegation

Sometimes, we make observations like, he or she talks too much. There are many reasons why there are some people who feel the need to talk... to fill in the long silences between people, awkward silences of discomfort. Some people try and fill up these silences to keep conversation going.

On the flip side, there are those who will just look at you but not speak. No reaction comes forth, as I mentioned this leading to the awkwardness. The psychology of the silent ones runs deep and can vary from insecurity to low self esteem to fear of saying the wrong thing; Even the fear of ostracisation self abnegation.

The good news is, public behavior and conversation is a learnt art. You can actually change your current personality to incorporate techniques which will put you in a safe zone, and, in fact, make you a confident and happy conversationalist.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari