Sometimes, we make observations like, he or
she talks too much. There are many reasons why there are some people who feel
the need to talk... to fill in the long silences between people, awkward
silences of discomfort. Some people try and fill up these silences to keep
conversation going.
On the flip side, there are those who will
just look at you but not speak. No reaction comes forth, as I mentioned this
leading to the awkwardness. The psychology of the silent ones runs deep and can
vary from insecurity to low self esteem to fear of saying the wrong thing; Even
the fear of ostracisation self abnegation.
The good news is, public behavior and
conversation is a learnt art. You can actually change your current personality
to incorporate techniques which will put you in a safe zone, and, in fact, make
you a confident and happy conversationalist.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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