Showing posts with label Compliment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Compliment. Show all posts
Monday, 2 December 2019
Monday, 29 July 2019
Tuesday, 2 July 2019
Thursday, 13 June 2019
Sunday, 24 February 2019
Monday, 9 July 2018
Sunday, 24 June 2018
Happy living
Saving good energy is vital to happy
living. Once you get sensitive to energy, it becomes much easier to sense what
we call "bad vibes" from someone. Means negative energy directed
towards you. And you need to be very strongly positive to be immune to it. Mostly,
we are not.
So, until you become strong, it certainly
would be the wiser option to stay away. Contrary to neither what many term this
it is, not running away nor cowardice. It is merely a self protecting method. We
owe it to ourselves because we seldom find someone who would act as a
protective shield.
I say this from personal experience. Stay
away and cleanse yourself from anything you don't want others to foist upon
you. The more you are unaffected, the more you will continue to cleanse and be
less and less affected until one day, you will smile and deflect the
"vibes" you don't want to accept.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Monday, 4 June 2018
Wednesday, 23 May 2018
Tuesday, 22 May 2018
Self-esteem
I have noticed that complexed people often
not only have low self-esteem, they also retreat into themselves and prefer to
hold back than brush away their fears and hesitation. You are done if you
justify your stand because then, coming out of it is really difficult.
Do you endear yourself to yourself? Odd question,
Not at all. In fact, THE right question. Because if you don't see anything
within yourself that endears you to yourself, most likely you won't feel that
you CAN endear yourself to others.
The answer lies in your shaking off the
wrong ways of thinking which a body of complexes becomes with you, and approach
life and people with simplicity and honesty. Not worth it to become heavy
weight with negativity.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Tuesday, 15 May 2018
Lifestyle
I hope there comes a time in everyone's
life when you stop being influenced by others around and start to feel and act
on your own. How much time we spend in minutes and hours every day fulfilling
the needs of those around us? Granted, they are loved ones. But, it leaves us
lacking somewhere.
By the question is, is it unhealthy not to
love yourself? Do we have to feel guilt about it? So, how much do we do for ourselves?
I see this image of sacrifice for others expected of a woman, a mother, a sister,
most of the time.
Why is it that in India, women can be
"up there" and revered or not desirable company? Especially when she
strikes out for independence, loving herself no in between! Urban India is
changing but it takes generations to gradually transform current trends and
over a long period of time.
I find it is a lot of hypocrisy to revere
the woman at home but not the ones outside, to honor what befits your mindset
but choose to dishonor and disrespect those who perhaps don't fit in within
your mindset or those you feel threatened by. Is it all about controls then?
The current dilemma is that of a changing
role for women, which consequently must force change in the lifestyle of men.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Monday, 2 April 2018
Monday, 29 May 2017
Tuesday, 21 February 2017
Fragility of life
The fragility of life! The desire to live and the illusion
of being immortal keep us going. When there is a death, it only comes to the
next door neighbor. Such is our mental makeup.
But life is fragile and a shock could be awaiting us round
the corner. So, never take your health for granted as you grow older. Now a
day, things just fester inside and by the time we can take stock, things are
way worse than we dreamt.
I see people shying away from seeing doctors, fearful of
what they might diagnose. We talk about "mind over matter" so easily
but when it comes to us that are not always easy.
Just as being forewarned is being forearmed, being careful
and balanced in everything would be wisdom.
And even then, we have to pass on when our time is up.
Someone said live everyday as if it were your last. That everyday would be the
best day every day. A great attitude even to nullify many a karma....
Wishing us all the dawn of this
attitude...
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Monday, 20 February 2017
Tuesday, 31 January 2017
Monday, 31 October 2016
Spirituality
Spirituality is not a
religion. Neither is it a chain of rituals to be performed. It is beyond
anything manmade. We can be practicing any religion but we are all spiritual.
Our intrinsic quality is to be a spirit.
Yet, people don't seem to
understand this. They talk of anything spiritual like it is a phenomenon from
another world.
Even if we teach the theory of
spirituality, there will be a lacuna, because spirituality is to be recognized
as a set of principles which have to be practiced and experienced. If you are
spiritual, you have to follow a path which will be fraught with uncertainties
and painful realizations. So, people don't go there at all. Understandable, I
guess, but ultimately, a deep loss.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Friday, 28 October 2016
Monday, 24 October 2016
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