We do many things during the day. Some are planned and some just come along on the spur of the moment.
But examine them and ask yourself,
how many were done for others and how many for yourself? It is really
interesting to see what you discover about yourself.
We are often judged by what we do
not do to fulfil expectations which are not ours. And to placate and pacify and
satisfy others, how much we compromise on our own energies.
But when you reach a point of
balance and understand that everything you do has a consequence not in your
control entirely, but your intentions have been clear, then you will begin to
take steps towards what you feel fulfilled with and for which you don’t mind
being misjudged by those who actually feel better if they bend you to their
will.
And that is rampant all over,
within human beings. Within the mental aberrations of humans, we have to
achieve our mental balance. If you feel you are doing right by you, more often
than not, people also understand this.
We need to keep to our path. Yes,
it may be fraught with some discomfort but it is all better for you in the long
run.
Surekha Kothari
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