Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
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Consideration
I always wondered why love is
considered its own reward. We are so steeped in the thought that love has to be
reciprocated with love, that, in any relationship, we start anticipating
receiving it in return for our gift of love.
Expecting love is killing the
feeling of love in our hearts. There can’t be a display of love. It really
dwells in our heart. And does not fluctuate based on a return.
That genuine feeling that is felt
as an energy rather than awaiting quantification and calculation. Even a measure
of 0 to 10 cannot state the quality and depth of love. The levels of intensity
have no precise measure and this is the beauty of unfolding it so that it gives
us an abundance of joy. Never mind if no one understands. It is not a matter of
reaction but of defining us.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
Wednesday, 22 November 2023
Thursday, 20 July 2023
Monday, 10 July 2023
Monday, 29 May 2023
Judgement
People wither away gradually and
silently when they are not given love and attention. They feel rejected and
neglected. Love is the only binding force but humans are short on it. Because
they don’t love themselves enough.
Mindfulness comes in handy here.
Try to understand your story.
for, the more that understanding deepens, the more you will understand the
stories of others, without criticism or judgement.
No one is perfect. Don’t “approve”
or “disapprove” of anyone because , by doing this, you are actually approving
and disapproving parts of yourself. It is an ego exercise designed to improve
your own image. But it doesn’t work that way.
Images are bubbles that can burst
easily. You cannot hold onto a bubble for long, can you?
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
Wednesday, 30 November 2022
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Wednesday, 12 January 2022
Friday, 24 December 2021
Energy
Gradually, we find that there are a few people who occupy the space around our energy and who actually strengthen our energy system with love and nurturing .
Of course, the opposite is also true. They
could deplete our energy. But there is
no one to be blamed. We all know about compatible energies and incompatible
ones. And yet, we do keep some incompatible ones around us , for reasons best
known to us.
No harm ! Provided we can protect our
energies effectively. Because we will always find both energies around us. So,
better to learn how to manage ourselves when required because expecting Someone
to change their energies is asking for the moon.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Friday, 23 July 2021
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