When you get into the habit of being
stressed due to the way people behave with you, you are in trouble and out of
your mind control. I know most people get affected by the negative aspects of
people they love or are attached to. That is “normal”. But what we don’t
decipher in our hurt is that we have a choice: to hurt or not hurt. If we are
wholesome, hurt is not even an option. It is too trivial. But if we are
fractured by our reactions and our needs, then we need repair big time. We MUST
cure this at the earliest.
I realize that when people are grappling
with a certain discomfort in their own skin, they get mercurial. And they tend
to unleash their anger about not feeling so good about themselves, on others.
So, it is not necessary to retort at all. It is really not about you at all.
Once you understand this, it become easier to be calm around such people.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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