Acceptance

As humans, we are as negative as many others around us. We struggle with feelings like injustice, reactions, feeling rejected, the unfairness of justifying a wrong deed. Sometimes, these feelings become intense and there is much anger.

Then gradually, as you realize you can only change yourself, grudgingly, acceptance of what you can’t control or change sets in and you begin to seek answers to the “why”.

Finally dawns the light you need so badly within you and have blocked for so long. And when expectations die, finally, some peace dawns.

What a struggle when we could have arrived at this solution so much earlier.

But, right time and right effort is imminent! So much backlog to clear. We have to be kind to ourselves.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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Aspects of people

 

When you get into the habit of being stressed due to the way people behave with you, you are in trouble and out of your mind control. I know most people get affected by the negative aspects of people they love or are attached to. That is “normal”. But what we don’t decipher in our hurt is that we have a choice: to hurt or not hurt. If we are wholesome, hurt is not even an option. It is too trivial. But if we are fractured by our reactions and our needs, then we need repair big time. We MUST cure this at the earliest.

I realize that when people are grappling with a certain discomfort in their own skin, they get mercurial. And they tend to unleash their anger about not feeling so good about themselves, on others. So, it is not necessary to retort at all. It is really not about you at all. Once you understand this, it become easier to be calm around such people.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari