On a scale of 0 to 10, how much are you
driven by fear of losing the people you love? We all need to really think about
this because much of our life IS ruled by this fear.
The thought of being rejected or shunned
torments and transforms into depression in many cases. And then, you can ask
for references of names of psychologists/ psychiatrists / healers to tackle
your depression.
First of all, fear itself is avoidable.
What can be the value of fear between two people who are close? Only
desperation to remain close can trigger fear. The insecurity can trigger fear.
To make people indispensable in your life
can be a source of fear. They can rule your heart by all means. Love does not
need reciprocity. You love because you love. It is your choice and no one can
take it away. But if people you love choose to leave or create a distance, you
should still be able to love them and pray for their happiness. Love is not a
trade off although this is the way it works in this world.
You scratch my back and I scratch yours,
and let us both bleed to death in the name of love, curtain close applause. Now,
let us go home. This is the world we live in.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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