A strong message that we need to give
people is that of recognizing the aspect of victimhood within themselves and
shedding it at the earliest. When you compare yourself with others and find
yourself lacking in a few things, you feel life hasn't been fair to you. Victim
of life!
When people don't treat you well, you feel
you are not wanted, Victim again; without realizing that THEY may be struggling
to get out of their victimhood moments which stretch into years for many. Similarly,
you see relationships falling prey. One dominant the other victim, the power
play! Sensitive people often go under very quickly. And the game never stops, because
one of the two is living a victim's character.
Victimhood may be the result of many
things. Low self worth, inability to derive moral and spiritual strength,
depending on others for love and caring, not able to live with themselves and
many more. But the bottom line is, if you sink into victimhood, you sink period.
It is very difficult to come out of it. So, please don't let anyone push you
into that corner, not even your near and dear ones.
Stay wholesome people. And emerge stronger
each time you face any situation. After all, who is going to accompany you out
of this world? Certainly not those who were instrumental in your receding into
that mode.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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