Sunday 22 September 2019

A Bundle of expectations

Forget Safety, live where you fear to live, destroy your reputation, be notorious"- Rumi
People find Rumi too drastic sometimes. I love him. He eggs you on to live a full life, deeply philosophical on one hand and seeking freedom for each one of us who have bound ourselves hand and feet in the self created web of meaningless wants pure insecurity.
Thoughts such as, what will happen to me if I do this or that? The "ME "which we don't know ourselves. Which one is the "me?" There are so many "me"s , each with their own demands, their beliefs, their prejudices , etc.
This is what Rumi tells us to free ourselves from. Wants bring fear of non achievement. Wants attach us to the desired result and there is grief if that result does not materialize. We are actually a vortex of desires and to aspire to achieve them, a bundle of expectations also, because at every step, we would need people.
A life without fear is a life well lived. Fear of loss. Fear of death. Fear of not being loved. Fear of non acceptance of rejection and of loneliness, even if not being able to survive and so much more.
We can't even imagine how much time is being wasted on so many unnecessary activities which actually increase our fear quotient and reduce our freedom to languishing within boundaries made by us and none other.
Surekha Kothari

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