Some relationships end with a lot of
bitterness. There is always blame in such cases, Very often, failing to
communicate often, failing to understand. Also, karmic parting sometimes as
they say, “not meant to be”. And each time, there is anger and pain worse
still, the inability to forgive.
All through these years, I have felt that
the hardest thing to do is to forgive. Because there is a lot of anger, a lot
of resentment and an equal amount of pain, even agony. And we so wallow in it
and us so blame the other for it that we lose the rational quality within us.
It is always good to give time, even if our
paths are different, and after that space is given and taken, talk things over
to clear the air. Because feelings had been strong earlier, it would be best to
seek an amicable closure from both sides. This way, you retain some good will
towards each other. Why not be at peace?
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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