Relationships and insecurities go hand in
hand. When you are trying hard to secure relationships, you are also
communicating to yourself a need within you. A need to be liked, a need to be
popular, maybe and a need to belong somewhere, probably because the idea of
belonging to yourself is alien.
But it is true that if you know how to
belong to yourself, then you can go anywhere and there will be only a lightness
of being. At that time, you won’t bother to even think of what people say or
think about you.
Every day, there are situations in our
lives where we could react and react strongly sometimes. But that, we must be
aware, would be our insecurities speaking. There is great merit in being
unfazed by the episodes of active energy around us and remaining steadfast.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
SpeakingtreeBlog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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