The blame game! We have done it ever since we can remember and
still continue with it. I guess it is always easier to blame something else or
someone else for the plight we find ourselves in. That "plight" we
are in needs attention and analysis.
Once we accept that we make the choices for our lives, all
arguments become meaningless. But that is being rational. You will find that
people who are strong in energy make choices for themselves which is fine.
But rationality does not always
prevail. On the flip side, there are others who are weak in energy, who will
blame the earth if they fall, blame the family for a bad marriage and so on… everyone except
themselves. Not only are miserable, they also make others around them
miserable.
And it is
so much depletion of energy all over. If only we learn to accept that we are
largely responsible for what transpires in our lives, we can change things
around for a total transformation in our lives. Because we can't change the
external environment or people. But we can work at our own attitudes and
knowledge. When we are young, we go through conditioning. But as adults, with
education, observation and analysis, we should be able to understand the
futility of the blame game and the impact of taking responsibility for our
lives.
Surekha
Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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