I think I understand why people don't share
heart to heart conversations anymore. Or rarely... it is not easy to understand
the pain of others for the simple reason that each one's intensity of feeling
the pain and the reasons for the pain are distinctive to each person. What
won't touch me will probably scar someone else for life. And while I could be
clinical , the other person could feel suffocated with an unimaginable tide of
grief.
Ultimately, life is about how much you can
reconcile yourself to. How much numbness you develop before you start to get
into the kind of drug induced slumber that knocks off your brain for a few
hours.
Count your blessings...one, two,
three......calm down! You are alone with your pain. And you have to get your
own power and control back. For one, stop giving importance to that feeling
which is likely to drown you. Cleanse your energy before it breaks you and
brings you to a point of no return. Create space around to build up the
capacity for movement. The last thing you need is to stand still within the
muddied swamp of pain which no one can pull you out of but yourself.
So, share your feelings with yourself, then
expel them from your system and relax with a smile and a charminar!
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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