The problem in relationships is
that we judge our intentions but judge only the actions of others. And since we
don’t have a clue about their intentions, we try to interpret their actions. By
the way, we go very wrong in this exercise many a time.
How do we really know what
someone is going through when they act? It is so possible that the action came
from a troubled mind and had nothing to do with any intention to hurt or upset
which we promptly DID get... upset! Why? Because we are unable to fathom
people's intentions and so, mis judge them.
So, rather than misjudge, do
you know what we can do? Just give them the benefit of doubt. Why muddy your
mind unnecessarily without possessing any data on others and with only the
overt action to go by and to understand from?
We would not want people to do
that to us. So, keep single standards and do as you would like others do unto
you.
Life is cool. Two steps only...
Benefit of doubt
Move on. Good thoughts to sleep
on.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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