Between the mental states of over explaining to please people and attacking people when YOU might be wrong, there is a middle ground.
RESPECT everyone whether, in your
eyes, they deserve it or not. Not because of anything else, but because it
demonstrates your sterling quality of non judgement.
We need to understand this. Yes,
we all have showered our frustrations and anger on others. But we do need to
become conscious and change this. For ourselves. Not because of others.
Whatever we change for the better
is a win win for us. When we detest people due to their negative qualities, the
law of resonance says “look within”. YOU may have something to clean up
yourself.
My guru says, detest the
negativity, NOT the person. Every soul shows karmic traits and learning to cope
with their karmic agenda, so, your role would be to live and let live. If you
are close, point out lovingly what they need to work with.
Just as the cane acts as a loving
support to a blind man when he crosses the road, love can hold your hand and
help you cross over from grief to happiness. If you don’t have enough love,
then you need to enhance the love factor within you.
Surekha Kothari
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