Is there a right time for everything? Perhaps,
yes...in relationships for sure. The closer you are and the more you have
participated in the emotions of another, the more vigilant you should be.
Nothing breaks as easily as a heart or trust.
I am not saying that one should be calculating
and on edge all the time. Somehow, whatever you say about not keeping
expectations, you do end up with a few. But there is always a difference
between realistic and unrealistic ones. Now, what
is realistic or otherwise would depend again on the closeness of the
relationship. Ironic but true.
It is
however; better to assimilate the hurt caused than to constantly be troubled
about it. It can disturb not only your mind but your life if you don't move on
with acceptance of something you cannot change. Because you can be responsible
only for yourself.
Surekha
Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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