When
we make attempts with another human being to let bygones be bygones but receive
no reply from there, what does it mean? And I am not referring to crimes, just
small, ego driven differences..
Growing
up, I was always taught that whatever the business with another person, it is
never over until it is over: forgiveness from both sides.
I
feel differently now. During your journey, it is only you who can work on
yourself. Only you can forgive and forget, and become immune and neutral for
your own sake. Of course, if both people can understand and forgive, nothing
like it! But, you are not responsible for anyone's growth but your own.
Cleansing your own energies is your priority. Your choices and freedom of will
are confined only to you. You cannot bring any change in anyone else unless
they do so out of their own free will.
So
many belief systems...so many wrong patterns of thinking! And we don't learn
any better. We wait for the other person to change....just a case of our
ignorant ego that doesn't allow sense to dawn.
So,
there is just one, simple mantra if you have tried but not succeeded in
building the bridge: LET GO....from thoughts because thoughts form memories and
we store memories instead of letting go.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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