The general complaint one hears about
making any inner changes is, "but, it is so difficult ". Well, isn't
everything difficult before it becomes easy? So, what is the problem? That you
don't want to try at all, only because it seems difficult?
Phase 2: WHY is it difficult? This is a
tricky one; Calls for a lot of beating about the bush and skirting the question
itself; can’t afford to have answers that point at you.
Phase 3: I did try but it didn't work; Very
difficult to measure the quantity / quality of the attempt. Easier to abandon
half way than go through what seems like a huge struggle. Specially for the
insatiable ego you carry everywhere.
When you speak of difficulties in life,
everyone has them. But if you don't make it a point to work your way through
them, the feeling of being stuck will always keep you stuck. And difficult is
as difficult thinks it. Whereas, easy is as easy does it. Simple and quite
straight forward!
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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