Today, I remember the words of my guru who
said , if a negative person does not let go of negativity, what sense does it
make for a positive person to react negatively to a negative person and become
negative ? A lesson I remember very often. So simple and so logical . And yet,
so difficult .
But by changing some ground rules, one can
achieve much success in retaining one’s positivity. And not get affected.
The first ground rule is to know that you
have to change your dependence on these people for your happy state of mind. In
moments when they may not be happy, they could spill negative vibrations around
you.
The second is to examine yourself. Have you
misunderstood something somewhere ? And started a chain of negativity ?
The third is, is someone else’s negativity
worth getting affected by ?
The fourth is, accept what is beyond your
control. Though this can be very painful sometimes.
And finally, make a vow to yourself that
you will be positive and happy no matter what.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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