It is important to know when to communicate
but more important to know when not to communicate. We all go through phases
when we do things out of good intentions but offend some sensibilities. Fair
enough. This happens sometimes to us also and then we are left to deal with our
feelings like others deal with theirs.
But in all of this, when one tries to
smoothen the ruffled feathers, not once but many times and there is no
response, it is time to withdraw communication.
Holding on is not healthy but some people
can’t let go easily. They have to work out their feelings and their
relationship on their own. More so, the intentions of others may take time. It
is all a part of the drama. But important to understand that this is not about
us or who we are.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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