Monday 28 June 2021

Social etiquette

 Sometimes, I think this irritation of people with fake news is really unjustified. It is WE who have invited it. We have created a market for it. It’s almost like a child telling a lie ever so often that everyone just laughs it off but the child continues lying because it has a license now. Through indulgence by the elders instead of instant correction.

Think ! How long have we worked to convert the society into a fake one. Yes, when individuals start to become fake themselves , gradually, the “fake” is supported and encouraged . Why ? Because fake behaviour, as in pretentious and false , gets you everywhere... or so people think. That is the attitude today

“Straight from the heart” is not in fashion. In fact, it is mainly a perceived as a weakness. “Social etiquette” is making yourself popular through massive doses of artificial sweeteners. No one wants bitter gourd juice anymore , the bitter taste of which conceals innumerable health benefits.

It is so amazing to sit back and watch how the hypocritical gets wonderful results while frank speak gets shunned. That’s why there are fewer people on the path of dharma.

But, you have to ask those who are genuinely simple and heart driven people whether THEY want to seek out the fake. You will find that they are pretty intolerant of this.

Aren’t we just a little bit exhausted trying to live a life that does not define us ? Actually, do we even know what defines us ? Worse still, do we WANT to know ? Not unless we start facing the truth about ourselves. And for this, we need to leave the fake world behind even if it means moving into a new space, which syncs with our true selves.

Surekha Kothari

www.BodyMindSoulCentre.com

surekhakothari.wordpress.com

Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari

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