There are so many subtle emotions that we
cannot differentiate between and tend to mix them up.
A major reason is self image . If we gave gradually allowed dependency on others
for our well being, we will develop a
trait of asking for sympathy and seeking love in sympathy towards us. The “woe
is me” attitude which is not worth sustaining.
This is very debilitating in the long run.
People should love us without pitying us because we have projected the “victim
“ side of us.
We don’t realise how much we do this to
keep people in our lives. But we are unable to improve this way, in our
personal capacities.
We need more empaths in our lives and we
have to become one to attract them.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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