When we tie a knot the wrong way,
we have actually made just one small mistake in the method. But that one
mistake carries out the whole process incorrectly. And to unknot it takes quite
a while.
I find relationships start
getting complicated also with just that one misunderstanding. And if not
immediately sorted out, becomes a complicated entanglement of more
misunderstandings, more emotions and more bad blood.
And in such cases, unknotting is
not quite that simple! Because humans have their egos, a sense of self-respect
etc. so, a straight forward, simple act of wanting to untie the knots is not so
simple.
At the end of the day, you have
to really know intentions, everyone’s and your own. This is not simple anymore
because people are not simple anymore. What you see is Not necessarily what you
get.
There is no solution except your
own ability to absorb the outcome. // Silence can be one solution but not a
practical one. Besides, who says you can’t misread silences? Ensuring that WE
act from pure intention is all we can do.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Speakingtree Blog: www.speakingtree.in/public/surekhakothari
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