I saw a video that set me thinking and analyzing its truth! The caption was “no one is really a friend”. Hmmm.
Actually, right from childhood
and our school days, we make friends. We even depend on them not only for company
but for our happy moments spent with them. But the basic reality is that we
must accept AND celebrate our dissimilarities and similarities if we want long
term connections.
I find relationships like reading
new books every day. We get absorbed in them. But if we see a change in the
friends we have, we get disoriented. Which means that there are conditional
acceptances.
It is the human ego which is at
the root of karma. It is the feeling of incompleteness and wanting more to fill
that perpetual void within us!
If you have noticed, no ONE
person can fulfil all our needs. That is why we HAVE so many relationships,
each fulfilling some need.
Ultimately, if truth be told, we
ARE alone. We may look for crutches here and there, most of which are
temporary. We appear seemingly together, like passengers on a train, but only
till our station arrives.
This is not a unique thought but
an oft repeated one. However, it does not sink into many minds and they still
carry on, living out of the flow of life and suffering for it.
Surekha Kothari
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