The irony in relationships is that when you start seeing the truth, often, you cannot state it to people openly. It is not for nothing that silence has been recommended as the deepest form of wisdom.
It is amusing to see people being
nice and even caring on your face but their actions and energy speak
differently. And you can understand the duality in their nature.
It is a tough call when such a
person is close to you. These are tests of learning to live without expectation
and attachment. Because both end up upsetting you and deplete your energy.
There is definitely an amount of
hurt which is unquantifiable. Hopefully, when you understand that it is not
YOU, that each one has their own learning and timing of those lessons, that
hurt will be mitigated.
Sometimes, you even wonder why
they do this! It is so much easier to be simple and act as such. But yes!
Easier said than done. And it takes work and more work to detach from the behavior
of others, especially when it is devious towards you AND you are AWARE it is
so.
Surekha Kothari
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