Relationships

 This forward that someone sent me is an eye opener for those who make temporary friendships and then suddenly start to ignore them. They break the trust that has developed. Evidently, vested interests dictate this shunning when the friendship is not “convenient” anymore. But if there is grace in you, you will tie up the loose ends before leaving, yes, with a hug and a smile. It seems really opportunistic and rude to leave a friendship in the lurch, no explanations given. And it definitely speaks volumes about the character of such people. If you never meant to be loyal, you should not have entered into such relationships. Not every human being is so thick skinned as to feel nothing!

Surekha Kothari

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Parameters

When someone gives of themselves in genuine friendship, it is to be honored, not taken for granted. Yes, friendship is an honorable relationship filled with mutual respect and love.

And there are certain parameters!

Not to treat generosity as a weakness but cherish such friends.

Not to abuse the trust placed in you as a friend

To be there for a friend in need

To be frank and truthful, even if it hurts. Because amongst friends it is not supposed to hurt but be appreciated.

To be loyal at all times

To Refrain from talking behind the back.

Friendship is like a beacon of light. It should be able to spark off more light.

Friendship cannot be claimed only with daily forwards and chat messages. It takes a lot of courage to be a true friend. It is nothing short of a spiritual connect between two people.

Surekha Kothari

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