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Thursday, 30 July 2020

Life moments


The beauty of life’s moments holding your new born child. The first time she calls you”ma”,  the joy of that moment when it would be as joyous as if it was the last word you heard. The warm hugs and the little arms around your neck as you get “spitty “kisses which glisten in your eyes, not your cheeks.
And when this child becomes an adult, she does the same with her kids. The tradition of motherhood continues but she has forgotten that warmth and fuzzy feeling of being held by her mom forgotten that even if a child becomes sixty, she is still the same loveable and huggable kid to her mom.
Ironically, her inner child leaves her while her mom has hung on primarily to those wonderful memories of that little child who, as an adult, has moved into another phase. That’s life. You live with your memories. And live with the fact that life is full of phases. And you must move on. Or life will make you do so.
Surekha Kothari

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Sunday, 6 January 2019

Attitudes of people

There is a very wise saying in Hindi which, translated, means, and “never throw stones in still waters". Let things be. Let sleeping dogs lie. Don't create ripples unnecessarily, so relevant for life and attitudes of people. When things are moving smoothly, there will always be people disturbing the peace, people who get restless when there is no problem. Peaceful
Existence also becomes intolerable for some. I think peace is also a habit, like any other. There are those who can't live any other way. But living in a world of dualities, many will spring up around you to threaten your peace.
But, I wonder if that is not too placid a way to exist. That turbulence is also required to grow. If stones are not thrown into still waters, the water may stagnate. And sometimes, when you let sleeping dogs lie, your home may be burgled.
The core issue is to know when to and when not to throw a stone.
Surekha Kothari

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