Defining limits! A very
difficult exercise for many. Specially to know when to stop. To know when you
are encroaching on someone else's space. To know when you begin to cross the
line and begin to intrude or encroach onto someone else's life.
Human psychology is complex to
say the least. I realize that some very deep rooted insecurities make people
cross limits, to grab something they believe will make them feel better. But
that is far from what might happen in the long run.
Ultimately, you might succeed
in controlling people for a while but once people set limits and demonstrate
the need for space, crossing this might prove to be a bad choice.
They say, if you love someone,
set them free. But if you end up controlling them, you show you don't love OR
respect them. It only demonstrates a gnawing personal need.
Taking the space that is
yours and then, with dignity, moves away. This speaks of a beautiful energy
that is in harmony with itself.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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