You must have come across people who never
look straight into your eyes and talk or, will talk with an exaggerated politeness,
especially in public. They probably have some need to be connected with you but
don't necessarily like you too much. Each time you look at them, they will be
looking at you with an undefined expression from the corner of their eyes and
will quickly turn away when you actually catch them looking at you.
As we grow older, I guess we start
observing more. As they say, who knows what feelings people are hiding under
that obscure, even blank look!! We succeed in reading such aspects of people
with growing awareness.
The biggest challenge is to understand where
people are coming from and then getting immune to their machinations. You know
what is going on behind the scenes. You are able to see it clearly but you are
not going to let it affect you. Once you know and there are no obscurities that
are your power and your strength to work with.
Here, too, you need courage to endorse your
own path. And stay with it. "Men may come and men may go but I go on
forever" kind of doggedness. Energize! Constantly energize! And immunize!
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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