Every age has its challenges. As kids as
teenagers as adults in various phases of growth, mental, emotional and
spiritual; the one benchmark of maturity is becoming non judgmental. And this
means truly so, not just superficially so as not to displease.
Actually, to be judgmental really means
that we need to look at what others are mirroring in us. Why do I need to judge
anyone at all? Because there are similar memories that trigger in us; if there
weren't those memories, we would not find it in our hearts to judge.
It is also a matter of feeling holier than
thou feeling superior. That is a game that the ego plays. We don't need to play
into its hands. We are fine being our own selves, with our own journey and our
own challenges, learning, unlearning and relearning constantly and continuously
along the way.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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