Humans have been known to forge great
bonds, just as strong as hatreds sometimes. A brother could donate his kidney
to his brother. A sister could conceive a child just to give it to a sister or
sister in law who can't bear children. Commendable and nothing less than a
sacrifice. Yet another sister could decide to marry her own brother in law
after her deceased sister, just to be a mother to their kids. Emotional moments
and acts.
Physical pain is so much better understood
than emotional pain. When pain is compounded many times over, its increasing
depth becomes unfathomable to someone else. That is natural, I guess. They
haven't gone through the experience. Yet, they might easily sit in judgement
over something despite NOT experiencing it. Whereas, some would think it
prudent to cut and delete such things from their lives.
Seeking understanding from people is not
always productive. In fact,quite the contrary. No blame necessary. Everyone
functions from different levels including us. Life is made up of all hues, like
people. People just forget that life has many hues.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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