Showing posts with label Material. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Material. Show all posts

Tuesday, 26 May 2020

Attitude


We have a strange society. We try and stay away from controversy but don’t think twice about throwing others into controversy by speaking about them when they are not around to defend themselves. So, often, the issue gets compounded. And people love to hear such stories, as long as they are not about them.
These kinds of attitudes don’t help in creating cohesiveness. Only positive steps in creating bridges will do so. When do we begin the construction?
Surekha Kothari

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Thursday, 1 August 2019

Inner reality


Each day, we create our reality with our thoughts. We really don't realize what power thoughts have. We are not in command or in charge of ourselves to see this even. We happily go around creating a web of negativity around us and getting stuck in its reality. Negative produces more negative. Our inner reality is our outer reality. No two ways about that.
So, better be careful what we think or wish for. What really works is love and blessings, unconditionally.
Surekha Kothari

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Sunday, 7 July 2019

Experience

Humans have been known to forge great bonds, just as strong as hatreds sometimes. A brother could donate his kidney to his brother. A sister could conceive a child just to give it to a sister or sister in law who can't bear children. Commendable and nothing less than a sacrifice. Yet another sister could decide to marry her own brother in law after her deceased sister, just to be a mother to their kids. Emotional moments and acts.
Physical pain is so much better understood than emotional pain. When pain is compounded many times over, its increasing depth becomes unfathomable to someone else. That is natural, I guess. They haven't gone through the experience. Yet, they might easily sit in judgement over something despite NOT experiencing it. Whereas, some would think it prudent to cut and delete such things from their lives.
Seeking understanding from people is not always productive. In fact,quite the contrary. No blame necessary. Everyone functions from different levels including us. Life is made up of all hues, like people. People just forget that life has many hues.
Surekha Kothari

surekhakothari.wordpress.com