Showing posts with label Power of love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Power of love. Show all posts
Sunday, 26 December 2021
Tuesday, 23 July 2019
Challenges
Every age has its challenges. As kids as
teenagers as adults in various phases of growth, mental, emotional and
spiritual; the one benchmark of maturity is becoming non judgmental. And this
means truly so, not just superficially so as not to displease.
Actually, to be judgmental really means
that we need to look at what others are mirroring in us. Why do I need to judge
anyone at all? Because there are similar memories that trigger in us; if there
weren't those memories, we would not find it in our hearts to judge.
It is also a matter of feeling holier than
thou feeling superior. That is a game that the ego plays. We don't need to play
into its hands. We are fine being our own selves, with our own journey and our
own challenges, learning, unlearning and relearning constantly and continuously
along the way.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
Thursday, 10 January 2019
Thursday, 27 December 2018
Solution
Overactive and emotionally disturbed ! Yes,
the two can go hand in hand sometimes. If someone faces injustice, abuse and
lack of love , emotional disturbance is a given. The point is, how to survive
this feeling of being victimised for no fault of yours ? Simple ! The first
choice is, DONT accept victimhood. I do not know if anyone who has not had
people who have tried to break them down.
While some lacking courage might succumb,
the fact is, to succumb to any form of injustice is as much a crime as
practising it. On the other hand, those who have a distinctly defiant streak
may go the other way by becoming so busy and active that they don't focus on
their emotions. But that is also a denial of a kind because whatever else you
do, emotions ride with you. That is the issue.
So, being aware of this, it is better to
accept and run through all the emotions one by one till they get exhausted and
dissolved. Running away from them is not a permanent solution at all.
Surekha Kothari
surekhakothari.wordpress.com
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